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Mending a Broken Heart: Tips for the Broken Hearted

Getting heart broken is inevitable, getting over it is hard. It takes several steps, however, there is no definite way of getting over it.

Drown yourself in all the good times you had. I know this seems negative but it is not. By remembering all the good things you used to do together, you are allowing yourself to feel and let go at the same time. It is hard to remember all the good things that the person who broke your heart did and said but try, allow your self to feel.

After getting the good things, cherish the precious memories. One day, someone else will make you feel better that your ex, but none will be like those already experienced. This does not mean you are not taking a step to healing, you are and in the long run, learning how to still have the charm you have always possessed. These memories will teach you that each day is special, even though it ends up badly. When a child is removing her tooth in infancy, the pain is unbearable, but when at night the tooth fiery leaves money where the tooth was, she wishes to feel the pain again to get that happy again. Lock them away and thank fate for giving you the chance to be happy, at that time.

Get out the bad memories, all the sadness you have inside of you. Do not coy away from the pain, feel it as you felt the happiness, you are only being human by feeling it. The bad memories will let you know if it was right you broke up with him or her or if it was a blessing for you that he dumped you.

There are two sides to the coin, if you dumped him, it could have been your mistake to do so. Review all the pros and cons you had considered while dumping him and if they still seem strong enough to you, let go.

You can let go by first removing all the things that make you want to go back to him. However, if something is special to you, leave it, it does not mean you are weak or not recovering from the break up.

Next, fill your time with things that you have always wanted to do but could not because he was in you life. These things will make you realise how much you were missing while with him and then you enjoy them to your fullest.

Start doing things that single ladies or men do. Go out and come back exhausted, flirt but do not get involved too quickly, you will be using that person to get over the heart break. Drink yourself stupid and dress the way you want. All these will help you get back to the life you heard, before she or he walked into your life and turned it upside down.

After getting over the heart, learn that it is normal to love and not be loved back. Learn that heart breaks are normal, even in marriages. After getting that fact, protect your heart dearly, but not too dearly to make the one who would make you happy go. When a new person comes into your life, give little til you learn that he will not step on your heart. When that happens, move heaven and earth to make it work, even when you fell it is falling apart for when it does finally fall apart, you would have given it your best, it simply was not meant to be.

Lastly, learn to love and cherish your life. Heart breaks are inevitable, but, practise makes perfect. After nursing one, it will not be hard for you to get over the next, God forbid!!


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June 1, 2010 | 12:32 PM Comments  0 comments

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Easter

"The joyful news that He is risen does not change the contemporary world. Still before us lie work, discipline, sacrifice. But the fact of Easter gives us the spiritual power to do the work, accept the discipline, and make the sacrifice."Happe Easter

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Mother's Day Poem
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Happy Mother’s Day to my dear Mum and yours,

Author of my personality:

Pleased, I hope, with what you read in me;

Pleased, I hope, with episodes to come.

Yet now I, too, would get some pleasure from

Making you the book in which I see,

Of all the players in my family,

The central character, whom I would plumb.

How beautiful to move in that direction!

Each to each a separate source of pleasure,

Reading in the other’s happiness,

‘Mid much description, underlying love.

So would we deepen the connection,

Discovering new passages to treasure

As we follow time towards tenderness,

Yearning for what years unread will prove.

May 9, 2009 | 8:08 AM Comments  0 comments

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Credit Crunch
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There are a number of reasons why banks may suddenly stop or slow lending activity. This may be due to an anticipated decline in the value of the collateral used by the banks to secure the loans; an exogenous change in monetary conditions (for example, where the central bank suddenly and unexpectedly raises reserve requirements or imposes new regulatory constraints on lending); the central government imposing direct credit controls on the banking system; or even an increased perception of risk regarding the solvency of other banks within the banking system.

A credit crunch is often caused by a sustained period of careless and inappropriate lending which results in losses for lending institutions and investors in debt when the loans turn sour and the full extent of bad debts becomes known.These institutions may then reduce the availability of credit, and increase the cost of accessing credit by raising interest rates. In some cases lenders may be unable to lend further, even if they wish, as a result of earlier losses.

The crunch is generally caused by a reduction in the market prices of previously "overinflated" assets and refers to the financial crisis that results from the price collapse.[6] This can result in widespread foreclosure or bankruptcy for those investors and entrepeneurs who came in late to the market, as the prices of previously inflated assets generally drop precipitously. In contrast, a liquidity crisis is triggered when an otherwise sound business finds itself temporarily incapable of accessing the bridge finance it needs to expand its business or smooth its cash flow payments. In this case, accessing additional credit lines and "trading through" the crisis can allow the business to navigate its way through the problem and ensure its continued solvency and viability. It is often difficult to know, in the midst of a crisis, whether distressed businesses are experiencing a crisis of solvency or a temporary liquidity crisis.


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